Mmm.. how do you ask for a favour?

So, I've been wondering about this a lot..
Is it my upbringing that has caused me to have a very high expectation for this?
Well.. no I don't think so..
Shouldn't you ask properly?
Hmmmm...

So I took an extra class (on top of the 2 I already have for 3 months) and it seemed that it was finally time to handover to the teacher (whom was finally employed!).
And after the first time the teacher took over (after I handed over) for lesson ytd, news came today about.. how the teacher will spend her last week with us this week.
Woww.. and i wrote down the minutes myself that I'm taking over, again.
And it was because I asked: "so what will happen to her children?"
No one asked my opinion.

And the other thing was, why didn't the teacher herself consider telling me the news herself?
She still chaired the meeting today and asked us about our feedback for her and then in the last agenda she dropped the bomb.
And in her approx 1 week plus 2 weeks with us, she just kept being so enthusiastic in starting new things and changing my classroom board and things.

Well, she's vp too so I have to listen and follow. But..
Sighhh
I just said it myself ytd that God's plan is always macro!
And now I'm dwelling on such a microscopic perspective.
Help! The struggle is so real :/